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Over the past 45 years, Dear Deidre has become the nation’s most trusted advice column, helping more than half a million readers who have shared their problems.

No matter what is troubling you, whether you’re having a hard time blending your family, you suspect your partner is cheating on you, or perhaps you’re concerned about a loved one’s addiction, the unique service answers every single email with a free, confidential and personalised response. 

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People ask this all the time and the answer is, yes, they are all real.

Each letter is from a real reader but is treated confidentially and all identifying features are changed so that you are protected.

If I send in my problem, will I get a personal reply?

Yes. Every genuine problem will receive a personal reply from one of my trained counsellors. The Dear Deidre team aims to answer each problem within one working day. 

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The average cost of private counselling in the UK is £40-£50 per session, but through writing to us, you can get support completely free of charge.

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Problems are personal and private, so we don’t you print the names and addresses of people who write to us.

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We always change or take out all identifying details before publication to insure this doesn’t happen.

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No problem. If you tell me that you don’t want your problem to be published I will always respect this.

If your letter has a particularly strong or moving story that I think it will help others to read, I may write to you and ask permission to print your problem – with all identifying details changed, of course.

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We do occasionally receive postal letters with no name or return address, begging that a reply to the problem be printed on the problem page.

While I help where I can, I receive hundreds of problems each week and can only select a few for publication. So there’s no guarantee your problem will be printed.

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It’s not always possible however but all my team are hand-picked and trained and will send you a warm and helpful reply no matter who they are.

I always read all the problems and replies, even though I can’t physically write every reply myself.

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If you are worried about your health then your first step should always be to seek face-to-face expert medical advice.

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Sally has over 20 years of experience in writing and editing women’s issues and general features.

She achieved a distinction in the Certificate in Humanistic Integrative Counselling, has specialised in relationships and parenting and is passionate about helping people find a way through their challenges.

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A SENIOR aide to Wes Streeting and Labour councillor has pleaded guilty to two counts of indecent exposure, The Sun can reveal.

Sam Gould, 33, intentionally exposed his genitals “intending that someone would see them and be caused alarm or distress”.

The Health Secretary tonight said he was “shocked and horrified” and called for him to “stand down immediately”.

The Cabinet Minister told The Sun: “I am shocked and horrified by this news and my heart goes out to the victims of these totally abhorrent acts.

“No one should have to endure this behaviour and I am grateful to the Police for taking swift action.

“A disciplinary process has been underway since I was made aware of his arrest at the weekend and, following his guilty plea, I am calling for him to resign as a Redbridge Councillor immediately.

“He has abused my trust, the trust of my team and the trust of my constituents and must now accept the consequences of his actions.”

Mr Gould appeared at Barkingside Magistrates’ Court today and has been released on bail.

He will be sentenced at the same court next month.

The senior parliamentary caseworker has been suspended from the Labour Party.

A Labour spokesperson said: “These allegations are extremely serious and upsetting.

“As soon as they were brought to our attention, Mr Gould was immediately suspended both from his role in the constituency office and from the party, pending a police investigation.

“We will not be providing any further comment during legal proceedings.”

TWO MEN decided to ditch the UK for a 200-year-old abandoned village in France that cost them £22,000 to buy.

Paul and Yip decided to buy the village located in Normandy and bring it back to life.

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Two Brits decided to ditch the UK and buy an abandoned village in France[/caption]

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Paul and Yip bought the derelicy buildings for just £22,000[/caption]

“We never ever set out to buy a hamlet or village, we didn’t really think oh well we shouldn’t really do this cuz we haven’t got the money,” said Paul.

“We just thought, it’s buy now worry about it later,” added Yip.

The pair decided to purchase the village and restore it to its former glory and then make the surrounding area a glamping site.

Taking to YouTube, the pair said: “It had sat derelict and covered in ivy for nearly 30 years!

“Nature was swallowing these buildings whole! Long story short we sold everything we owned and bought the lot for €26,000.

“We never imagined that we would one day own our own home, let alone a whole village.”

While much of the village still needed to be repaired, the men had been successful in turning a former piggery into a utility room for future guests.

The bathroom was complete, with Paul and Yip installing shower stalls inside the 19th-century room.

Now, the men had two weeks to install a kitchen, which they documented on Channel 4‘s Help! We Bought a Village.

The pair have spent a year making the village safe for guests and it was finally time to welcome their first ones.

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The pair decided to turn it into an idyllic glamping spot[/caption]

“When we turned up, it was a million miles away from being able to invite anyone now for it to resemble a business and something that someone would want to come and spend their time and pay for it is a huge thing,” said Paul.

The pair decided to keep the village looking like it would have when it was first built, instead of using brick, they rebuilt the walls using stone, as they would have done 200 years ago.

For the utility room, they kept the stone walls but added a pop of colour with green paint for the doors and window frames.

Just outside of the utility room, the men had transformed a horse box into a small bedroom for their first guests.

The guests were seriously impressed with Paul and Yip’s transformation and how ‘special’ it was – leaving the men in tears.

Yip said: “We’ve made a business from somewhere that was quite dilapidated and unused for 30 years and now it’s back in action, we are literally breathing life into it.”

The pair are continuing to share the renovations over on their own YouTube channel (@yipnpaulshelpweboughtavillage).

While it’s not close to being finished, and roofs continue to crumble, the men have plenty of support from fans to keep them going.

One person wrote: “You will put it all back together and it will all be lovely again. Good neighbours look after good people. Keep up the good work and don’t loose heart.”

Another commented: “A great admiration to you both. If it falls “rebuild” a lot of work. Patience is a virtue…… you will renovate your beautiful village into a humble one.”

“A bit overwhelming! I so admire your vision and your determination. One day at a time and remember to pause for self care,” penned a third.

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DANNY Jones’ dad Alan Jones has quit his radio job, in a row over Maura Higgins’ ‘drunk Brits kiss’ with his McFly star son.

This week, The Sun revealed Maura, 34, and McFly star Danny, 38, stayed at a hotel until 6am sharing wine.

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Danny Jones’ dad Alan Jones has quit his radio job, in a row over Maura Higgins’ ‘drunk Brits kiss’ with his McFly star son[/caption]

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Alan is a presenter on Fresh Radio Spain, in Benidorm, and he hosts a three-hour slot on the station, five days a week[/caption]

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Danny and Maura shared a kiss at the Brits[/caption]

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Maura returned to social media last weekend[/caption]

A revelation that comes after we revealed they’d kissed at the Universal Brits after-party that same night, just a few months after they appeared together in ITV1’s I’m A Celebrity in November.

Danny’s wife has issued a “final warning” after the new clip of her husband and Maura at a hotel was revealed.

And now, Danny’s dad Alan is said to be “deeply upset” by comments his colleagues have made, at the radio station he presents at.

Alan is a presenter on Fresh Radio Spain, in Benidorm, and he hosts a three-hour slot on the station, five days a week.

But after discovering his colleagues had labelled his son as a ‘pig’ following his kiss with Maura, Alan is now off air and has quit the position he loved.

A source close to Danny’s dad Alan told The Sun: “Danny’s dad is refusing to go back on air on his radio show, and furiously ranted at station staff after two of his co-presenters were mocking his son live on air.

“He’s been telling people that Danny is going through a marriage crisis, and so it’s upsetting to then have his colleagues talking about it behind his back.

“After finding out his co-presenters called his son a ‘pig’ for his kiss with Maura Higgins, it’s been a hugely upsetting time for Alan, who loved his time presenting Fresh up until that point.”

Danny has been estranged from his father Alan Jones, 72, for 18 years, which he has struggled with, and spoke openly about in the I’m A Celeb jungle last year.

He wasn’t invited to Danny’s wedding to Georgia Horsley in 2014, and he also hasn’t met his grandson, Cooper, six.

Alan left ex-wife Kathy, Danny’s mum, in 2005 when Danny was 19 years old and already enjoying a string of hits with McFly. 

His father’s abrupt exit left the singer struggling with anxiety and panic attacks. 

In 2022, he told podcast White Wine Question Time: “I had a massive bout of anxiety when I was 19, when my dad left.

“It’s hard for a kid because you crave that [stability] and you miss it.

It comes as Danny’s wife Georgia Horsley is said to be holding “crisis talks” again, with a source from Danny’s camp saying it’s time for the pop star to be “honest” and publicly address what happened in a bid to save his marriage.

“Everyone would understand why Danny and his wife have been quiet” they told the Mirror.

“They are likely working through various discussions from the first video that was released alone. With this second video, Danny needs to now speak out.”

They explained that single Maura is receiving most of the “backlash”, while married man Danny is getting away with his actions.

The source insisted it’s only right for the All About You hitmaker to “take some accountability” now before it gets worse.

“Who knows if another video will emerge, but being honest is now the only way that this has a chance of resolving itself,” they added.

Just this weekend, Maura broke her cover and revealed she’s jetting to Los Angeles for an “exciting shoot”.Maura shared a snap from her business class seat on a British Airways flight leaving London Heathrow.

She had what appeared to be a glass of white wine in front of her and headphones at the ready for the long haul flight.

It comes after we revealed she continued partying with Danny until 6am after their kiss at the Universal Brits after-party.

Only security guards appear to be nearby as they are seen chatting intimately, laughing and holding filled wine glasses.

They then disappeared into a darkened, curtained-off side room at the Nobu Hotel in central London.

Staff said the room was for use by guests only.

One security guard said: “You can only go through there if you are staying at the hotel.”

Earlier that night, at about 3am, Maura was heard shouting “Danny” as they stood on The Strand leaving a Universal Records party at 180 House where they were filmed kissing at 2.50am.

They travelled by car separately across London to a Sony party at Marylebone’s Nobu Hotel.

An onlooker said: “Danny and Maura seemed to be enjoying their night of partying and had no plans to call it a night.

“They were knocking back wine at the Nobu from 4am and seemed keen to carry on. They weren’t seen leaving before 6am.”

After the Brits last Saturday, reality star Maura changed out of a see-through black outfit into a white minidress and jacket, with no top underneath, before going to an after-party where she kissed Danny, 38.

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Danny’s wife Georgia is holding “crisis talks” with her husband[/caption]

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After discovering his colleagues had labelled his son as a ‘pig’ following his kiss with Maura, Alan is now off air and has quit the position he loved[/caption]

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Danny and Maura met on I’m A Celeb last year[/caption]

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