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Man Utd 4 Real Sociedad 1 (agg 5-2): Bruno Fernandes scores hat-trick as United storm into Europa League quarter-final

IT’S safe to assume Jim Ratcliffe was not talking about Bruno Fernandes when he groaned about certain Manchester United players being ‘overpaid and not good enough’.

In fact amid all the job cuts and costs being slashed at Old Trafford, they might have to find a way to give the skipper a pay rise.

Bruno Fernandes and Joshua Zirkzee celebrating a goal.
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Bruno Fernandes scored twice from the penalty spot to send his side through[/caption]
Bruno Fernandes of Manchester United celebrating a goal.
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The United skipper kept his cool before slotting home[/caption]
Mikel Oyarzabal celebrates scoring a goal.
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Real Sociedad captain Mikel Oyarzabal opened the scoring in the fifth minute[/caption]
Rasmus Hojlund of Manchester United reacts after missing a goal.
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Rasmus Hojlund faltered in front of goal once again[/caption]

Time and time again it is the Portuguese talisman who comes to their rescue. Where would the Red Devils be without him?

With their season on a knife edge after an early penalty put Real Sociedad in command, Fernandes was the coolest man on the park – not once, but twice.

He scored two spot-kicks of his own – one in each half – to edge Ruben Amorim’s men into the quarter-finals against their 10-man opponents.

Then he claimed the match ball by latching onto Alejandro Garnacho’s pass to smash his effort into the corner.

Thanks to him a chaotic campaign is still alive – and could still result in an unlikely spot in the Champions League in September.

Just five games now separate United from Europa League glory and a ticket back to the top table – if Fernandes carries on playing like this, you never know.

The riches that come with that would be a big boost to the Old Trafford coffers – and Amorim’s transfer kitty.

Ratcliffe has had plenty to say this week – talking about the situation they walked into last year at United and also some of the players they ‘inherited’.

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Yet three of those he name-checked in his wide-ranging interview – Andre Onana, Casemiro and Rasmus Hojlund – were all picked to start in a game that was pivotal to their season.

As Amorim said pre-match, all of them had the chance to prove themselves to the billionaire Ineos magnate.

United wasted the chance to all but seal a quarter-final spot in the first leg in San Sebastian last week as they tired and allowed the Spanish side back into it.

And the visitors started here like they were determined to make the most of that reprieve.

Matthijs De Ligt looked to have just beaten Mikel Oyarzabal to a cross from Artiz Elustondo – and in any case the offside flag went up.

But there were a few appeals for a penalty among the travelling fans and the VAR told ref Benoit Bastien to have a look at his monitor.

That showed the Euro 2024 winner had drawn a foul from the United defender.

Just as he did last week, the Spanish forward scored emphatically from the spot – sending Onana the wrong way.

Only 10 minutes gone and United were behind to a team currently 11th in the Spanish league.

Given United’s dismal record here this season, heads could easily have gone down but spurred on by the skipper, they hit back.

Fernandes rolled a cross into the area and Hojlund looked certain to score until he was shoved in the back by Igor Zubeldia.

It was a clear penalty and the Sociedad captain was perhaps a little bit fortunate to escape with only a yellow card.

Despite the pressure, Fernandes confidently stroked home his 13th goal of the season beating Alex Remiro from the spot.

He wasn’t finished there though – turning provider with a pin-point corner which Patrick Dorgu volleyed onto the top of the net.

The Portuguese then played a sweeping pass into the path of the Danish new boy who probably had more time and space than he realised – firing straight at Remiro.

Another chance went begging as Joshua Zirkzee sent a low cross into the area that was backheeled by Hojlund but drifted just wide of the post.

The £72 million forward has not scored in his last 20 appearances before this but was contributing plenty to an improved United display.

United probably felt they should have been ahead at the break – but within five minutes of the restart, they were.

Artiz Elustondo body checked Dorgu as the January signing tried to get past him and it was enough for the French ref to point to the spot.

The Sociedad defender pleaded his innocence and to be fair it was hard to see how he could have got out of the way – but there was not enough evidence to overturn it.

And once again Fernandes was the coolest man in the stadium as he slotted home from 12 yards once more.

United were now on the front foot and the visitors made their task even more difficult when they went down to 10 men just after the hour.

Jon Aramburu had only been on the pitch seven minutes – sent on as the bench were worried Zubeldia could earn a second yellow card.

But he chopped down Dorgu as he looked to race clear on goal and was adjudged to be the last man – even though the Dane had a long way still to run.

Zirkzee nodded a good chance wide and there were still some nerves with United holding such a slender advantage.

But all those were blown away as Garnacho was unselfish for once – slipping a clever pass through to Fernandes who fired a low shot past Remiro.

There was still time for another in stoppage time as Hojlund pulled a cross back for Fernandes’ countryman Diogo Dalot to lash home.

That completed a great night for Amorim and his Portuguese men of four.

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I’m trapped by controlling husband I thought was knight in shining armour – now I want to escape with another man

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I first met my husband, I thought he was my knight in shining armour – now I just want to escape with another man.

I’m 29, my husband is 34, and we’ve been together for nine years.

My childhood wasn’t the happiest. My parents were controlling and spent most of their time berating me and putting me down.

As a result, I went off the rails, and they eventually kicked me out at 18, leaving me homeless and alone.

I bounced from sofa to sofa until I met my husband at a house party.

He was a few years older than me and I found safety in him. But thinking back, I definitely overlooked a lot of red flags.

Now, I realise I traded my controlling parents for a controlling partner. I can’t go anywhere any more without him giving me grief and starting an argument.

Every day is overshadowed with worry that the next incident will cause him to blow up.

I feel completely trapped in this marriage, so when I met a lovely, caring man at work, I couldn’t stop myself responding to his advances.

I hoped my colleague would be the answer to all my problems and, at first, he seemed really into me, but now he’s started to pull away.

While cheating was wrong, it felt like my only way out, and he gave me hope.

I know I need to stop trying to escape from my problems with men, but how?

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DEIDRE SAYS:  While it’s hurtful this man has pulled away from you, it has forced you to reflect and recognise a pattern.

The answer to your problems doesn’t lie in someone else’s hands, but in your own.

Don’t rush into another relationship, which will just complicate matters.

You will benefit from working on your low self-esteem but first it’s important to deal with your marriage.

It’s clear you’re unhappy with your husband and want to leave. If you’re certain he won’t change and staying with him will continue to make you miserable, it’s time you make the break.

My support pack, Ending A Relationship, will help you through.

If you’re worried about his reaction, contact Women’s Aid (womensaid.org.uk), who can help you leave safely.

Get in touch with Deidre

Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.

Send an email to [email protected]

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.

SO UPSET AFTER MY DOG DIED

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been beside myself since I had to put down our beloved family dog.

Every day I walk through the door expecting him to come running up to me, and when he doesn’t, it all comes crashing over me again.

I’m 40, and my wife and I adopted our dog nine years ago, not long after we moved in together.

He was with us for every big milestone, from getting engaged to having kids.

He became an integral part of our family, and now he’s gone. It’s left a huge hole in my life.

While the vet said we had no other choice, as his organs were failing, I feel so guilty that we had to say goodbye.

I can’t stop crying. I miss him so much.

DEIDRE SAYS: The death of a much-loved pet will take time to process.

Our animals are a part of our families so allow yourself the time and space to grieve properly.

Talking about your dog, especially to friends and relatives who have had a similar experience, can help. Some people even find that it helps to write down their thoughts and feelings.

While you can’t help feeling guilty, remember that you made the right choice for him, and nothing else could be done.

My support pack, Coping With Bereavement, will help.

LIFE RUINED BY NASTY NEIGHBOUR

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE had a gutful of my disruptive and antisocial next-door neighbour.

Whether she’s playing music loudly, banging and making noises late at night or stealing my parcels, she’s intent on making my life a misery. She has a stream of unpleasant guests who peer into my windows as they pass.

I’m a 36-year-old woman, and I live alone in a flat. I was happy in my home until eight months ago when the neighbour moved in. She’s 54.

It’s been a complete nightmare. No matter how many times I’ve tried to speak to her nicely, she always ends up verbally attacking me.

All of my other neighbours are too afraid to say anything, but I’m at my wits’ end.

DEIDRE SAYS: Neighbourly disputes are very stressful, and it can be hard to know what to do.

Getting legal advice would be a sensible first move.

You can get free advice through citizensadvice.org.uk. I would also consider contacting your landlord or building manager about the problems that you’re experiencing.

Start taking a note of any incident so that you have a clear record to back up your experience.

And read my support pack Nuisance Neighbours, which should help.

STUCK BETWEEN FEUDING FAMILY

DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE my parents’ nasty divorce, I’ve felt stuck between them.

I love them both, but trying to keep the peace has been an uphill battle, and I’m tired of being in the middle.

I’m a 32-year-old man, and my parents separated four years ago after being married for more than 30 years. My mum is 60 and my dad is 63.

Their marriage used to be happy, but over the years, things turned sour. For the last decade, there was constant arguing, and it even got to the point where they moved into separate rooms.

When my dad finally decided they should get a divorce, my mum didn’t take it well.

Ever since, she’s been poisoning everyone against him and has successfully manipulated both my siblings into cutting all contact with him.

Now, I’m the only person that still talks to him, and mediating between everyone has become a draining and impossible task.

My dad just wants to be a part of his kids’ lives and is so torn up they want nothing to do with him.

Every time I try to talk to my mum and siblings about it, they gang up on me and guilt-trip me about still caring for him.

I’m so tired of all of it. How do I make peace?

DEIDRE SAYS: Navigating a division in a family can be incredibly difficult, especially when you are caught between two people you care about.

However, it’s not your responsibility to act as a go-between.

If your mum and siblings refuse to work through these problems, you may need to accept that peace may not be possible.

Instead, you need to set boundaries and tell your parents that, while you’ll be there for them, you can’t mediate for them any longer.

My support pack, When Parents Fall Out, should be useful to you.

And you can also find support through Family Action (family-action.org.uk, 0808 802 6666).

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